Wholesome values and Christian character traits
come from God. God tells us what is good and helps us understand why it
is good. It is He who gives us power to do right. (Ephesians 6:4)
David has said that the statutes of the Lord are right, rejoicing the
heart...they are more to be desired than Gold. (Psalm 19) The prophet
Micah puts it this way: “He (God) has shown thee, oh man, what is
good, and what does the Lord require of thee....” (Micah 6:8) The
Bible clearly gives the moral standards required for successful living.
(1 Peter 1:16) It is God who defines the virtues. Without Him values would
be subject to personal preference and private interpretation.
REBIRTH identifies what are God’s ideals and why they should be
followed. But they only become a value or a character trait when they
are fully adopted into our lives. The values and character traits that
are presented in REBIRTH will help build a bank of moral knowledge for
the students. But they will not be values until students accept them and
act on them from their hearts understanding their foundation in God’s
word.
Values go deeper than behavior. Children can be taught to exhibit moral-like
behavior from fear and force. They may do it only as long as the externals
force them to perform that way. (2 Timothy 3:5) Christian values go to
the motivation and reasons behind the behavior, training the child to
freely choose to act right, for good reason. Man may only look on the
outside, but God knows our hearts. (1 Samuel 16:7) The ideal is for the
students’ inner attitudes of their hearts to be trained to know
and follow God’s way. This will effect behavior even when no one
is watching or cares what they do.
But this cannot happen simply by good training
and education although that is important. Even the best of Bible knowledge
will not be sufficient. The students will need the saving grace of God
in their lives to be changed. It is only through the Spirit of God and
conversion that true character development can happen. It is vital that
value education and faith be nurtured together so the student can successfully
build character.
As REBIRTH is used as a means of helping students become what God wants
them to be, it is vital that it be placed in the context of faith. “Without
faith, it is impossible to please Him” (Hebrews 11:1)
Children in the early grades may not have fully developed moral concepts
like adults. They may need to first learn how to act morally and later
learn the reasoning behind it. But the ultimate goal will be for the student
to develop a character founded on biblical precepts that will guide their
behavior.
The teacher plays a vital role in this process. If the child is taught
to follow the character traits by authoritarian force, he will find it
hard to internalize the guiding principles. If the teacher takes a permissive
approach the child will develop an attitude of tolerance to wrong. (Ecclesiastes
8:11) A teacher cannot afford to equate tolerance to wrong with being
kind or loving to the student. The child will soon loose respect for the
teacher and find it difficult to develop moral excellence.
The teacher’s walk with God is essential to his/her witness and
moral instruction. Students will not adopt values that are spoken, but
not believed or practiced by the teacher. The truly converted teacher
will be led and empowered by the Holy Spirit to accomplish great things
for the Lord in training children to have moral excellence.
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